Is she still employed?
I DO HOPE that this question i WILL EVER never reappear AGAIN here.
I know her with a profound love professionalism and respect for the Flying career. She started as ATC and she is one of the most of you that have done fine and the best to become a captain. Yes, after all better to lower your cross wind limits and go to the alternate instead trying to do your best all career to save fuel and money for you company and being slaughtered in PPprune...
Tough moment for you but if you have survived the command course you will do fine here too. Sorry ,Rosa.