bigdunc
There are only 2 places downroute where we don't stay with c crew. They are Narita and Jo'burg.
The standard of hotels is generally pretty good, most being 4 star+. There are a few exceptions though. BALPA have a criteria that ensures we stay in town in most places, and that noise levels, room service and various other things are of an acceptable standard.
The social side with crew when downroute varies hugely depending on where you are, and what the crew are like.