LFTR
Sorry to hear about the unsympathetic prats you 'work' with. I agree with loljoe, a gentle tap can work much more effectively than a total work over. I am afraid to say that a lot of 'so called' management have no idea of what management involves, especially NEW management. You were trying your best I am sure. In life, and in aviation sometimes having absolutes can be dangerous.
It is normally the plonkers behind thier ivory towering desks that cause the problem.