Hey Davina,
I don't think mixing flying (as a job) and having a family creates problems for women in particular. If it did, the problems would be in theory the same as for men. Of course, traditions used to want that men go to work, bring money home to feed the family, and women would stay home taking care of the children. That doesn't mean anything to me. What I mean is as long as you find the right balance, anything is possible. There is no reason for doubting this, coz hey - for us pilots or dreamers, what's better than flying and having a family, and what's better than combining both?
Hope I've been useful to you,
xxx all the best for the future
Kenny