Pandora,
as someone who has kids myself, I can understand your frustration. I am probably one of the people you are threaders with at the moment, and although I am sorry for any inconvenience, I can tell you that it is essential and that we do not target set properties for our 'attention'.
However, I am sure this will be of little comfort to you and your offspring. As others have mentioned, there is a system in existence for you to register your frustration, and see if there is a way of meeting in the middle. The Corporate Communications Officer or Officer Commanding Operations Wing at RAF Odiham are probably a good start.
The telephone number for RAF Odiham is 01256 702134.