Look around for a job with more money or see if you can take on more responsibility where you are and then try and get a raise. Just sitting where you are isn't going to produce your own home and enough money for flying.
You could also think about what you really would like to do and then work out how to do it. Maybe a training course etc.
A wise man once said to me that the only person looking after you is yourself.
If you really want to fly you will find a way. If you don't then you won't
If you don't make a move then no one is going to do it for you.
ZA