Wow, some amazing responses.. thank you everyone sooo much!
BelArgUSA - some airports have nurseries for airline crew, thats amazing i didn't know that! Luckily I am already married, he's not into aviation and is far to understanding for his own good sometimes! lol.
nick14 - Oxford give women a £2k bursery, thats amazing!! I had ruled oxford out, but they may be back in the running again!