EK . People say Bahrain is a good place for families, but I disagree. The only American School worth its credentials, was the DODs school, and it is inconvenient and expensive. There is a total lack of "family activities". Good luck finding a park or green anything. Dubai isn't "the end all be all", but there is a great American (and other) communities, where your 8 year old will have friends. There are a ton of activities for that age group and the schools are good. ASD (American School of Dubai) is particularly good (if you are looking for the US curriculum). I don't know much about EY, but I would be concerned about their housing issues. It is hard enough making a move overseas ... then you realize you are "homeless". It is best if you can put your "roots down" quickly, so that your family can get settled.