And you might care to note, if I may be so bold. Yeah why not I'm allowed!
That a PM is a PM is a PM! All or parts thereof are considered very bad form to be repeated in open forum. It is a method of saying something private. It doesn't say anywhere that it should be nicey nice nice. If anyone does something considered amiss then it is much better to say so in private than to expose 'you' in open forum. That is what SD was trying to do.
The proof, if it was needed, is that when you open a can of worms some get out. I am sure you see the point.
We can't always be right but we do give it a damn good go.
Have a good weekend.
PPP