Right I'm back from the talks. I put my foot firmly down on the subject. I told her I'm going ahead as planned and nothing would stop me now, so you have to support me 100% or 0%. No in between. I said I didnt want to listen a girl crying on the end of the phone when I'm balls deep in exams and studying.
We can always pick up where we left off when I come back. This year will be nothing but a memory in 20 years when we've raised a family together.
She piped down after that, so it looks like we've sorted things out.
I'm not posting a picture but believe me this girl is worth the effort. She's a beautiful 22 YO Italian.
So to all the men who've posted on this thread a big thanks
All of the advice helped