2close - there are irritating women too. How embarrassing for you! I hope you are very happy with your present partner who I am sure has very good eyesight and excellent taste.
BEagle - please feel free to open doors for me any time.
I don't expect it, but always appreciate it and always say thank you. No it isn't harrassment, it's nice old fashioned manners. My husband has them too!
I work with a lot of young people (late teens and early 20's) and you'd be surprised how many young men open doors for me (and for others).