If any one gets this issue again where they need to reset the TPM or have missing BIOS options, then this is how to do it.
Turn of ThinkPad
Turn On and press ESC Untill you see the windows boot loader
Turn Off
Turn on and press F1
All the options are there inc tpm reset....
Took ages to crack, all i had to do was ring Lenovo Support and speak to a right charictor that was willing to share the secrets of the lenovo techies