Tomuchwork:
nice collegues (preferably wih the same ethnic background
So you have to be racist to be happy?
I don't know what ethnic background you are, but I don't want you as my collegue!
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We chart our lives in order to be happy. For the most part, we know what we are getting ourselves into. Whatever situation you are in, you got yourself into it. So if you're not happy, it's your fault.