Congratulations FortyOdd2!
I know from experience you have been through a rather stressful time and so have those around you. In my case (PSA 66 at age 58) we went for the photon torpedo and hormone therapy and three years later I have a normal life expectancy.
My message, get the checks done, insist on them and if you get the bad news have the recommended treatment. We have mad drivers in this country (New Zealand) , too much booze and too many poor roads yet more men die of Prostate Cancer here than get killed on the roads. Most cases you will never hear of.
Once again, three cheers and throw your hat in the air for FortyOdd2!