Come on chaps leave TomCat50 alone, he's right it's natural to help your son/daughter whenever and wherever you can. You can't throw insults at his actions. If you have a different opinion that's perfectly acceptable but don't go out of your way to villify that poor man and his lad, it's just not gentlemanly. We are all faced by colleagues, relatives, friends, etc who have inadvertently 'jumped the queue' in life but that doesn't mean you immediately take it upon yourself to pour scorn on them, jealously is a very ugly episode. Dear oh dear....
