Redbird,
Honest answer - don't sweat it. Just keep doing your best and it will all come together of it's own accord. Trust me. Really.
It's like driving. You probably can't even remember a time when it was all you could do to keep the car on the road and not hit oncoming lorries. Now you can probably go around a 3 lane roundabout on two wheels, downshifting to accelerate out of your exit, all while changing the CD, eating a burrito, and not hitting the lorry that's in the lane you want. And you just kind of got to that point with no real thought, just time behind the wheel.
Flying's the same way. It'll just magically work itself out and you won't even notice it happens until suddenly you'll realise you're bored on final approach because it's taking so long and there's nothing left to do. Yes, really.
Pitts2112