Read my post again.
Never questionned your airmanship, agreed it was a good call to mention it on the atc freq. Never suggested you dont speak up, u did and as far as you know a conversation ensued that came to an agreement not to deice. What deicing had he already received? what was the subsequent holdover time? Didnt suggest you were miffed but was meant to suggest thats why you posted such an emotively titled thread.
As for talking bollux, sir I'm entitled to my opinion even if it is one that differs to yours. No need to be irrational, next you'll be suggesting a colleague in a neighbouring aircraft that has a different opinion to you is a cowboy. If you feel as strongly as you obviously do about this situation there are more appropriate channels to go through than publically criticising a fellow professional crew without knowing the facts.