EO, did we happen to meet last July on a day when you should have brought a Gazelle with you, but you couldn't coz the Wx was *****?
I can't add much to the discussion except to say that I was presented with a choice between getting married to someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and and a few more years of soldiering. I chose the former, which cost me a lot financially, but I haven't regretted it for a single moment. I appreciate that you can't live on thin air, but if you want out and can get out by whatever means and it makes you happy, do it. Best of British............
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The path of my life is strewn with cowpats from the Devil's own Satanic HERD!