getting some "slap and tickle" on an overnight is something that I consider as homework and essential to the pilot persona
....having said that.... one should get that "slap and tickle' from outside sources.....(other airline hosties etc) rather than in-house.....
...as one who has been through the ringer (twice) regarding getting some "slap and tickle" and the charges,accusations,lies,BS....etc.....I have endured the wrath of this....and by all accounts it is not a pleasant ordeal....as time off,time at the beach,stood down...etc is not all that it is cracked up to be........
my advice...a blow up doll and a hearty foot pump......because trying to blow that thing up at 3 in the morning takes away the urge.......
this whole sagarso stinks and ruins it for those of us who have good intentions and just want a good bonk