Dream on Jump Jump, that will never happen mate. More likely you will just grow apart while you do your IOT or whatever, followed by your specialised training. Then after you have spent 1 or 2 weekends a month driving hundreds of miles each way for a couple of years it will probably fizzle out.
Im not bitter.........but having great fun as a singlie.
Do what you want mate but dont let a long term girlfriend spoil a f*cking great flying career in the Mil.