Da4orce, I would like to apologise to you for calling you a dildo, it was wrong of me and was done so purely in response to your comments of having my eyes shut etc. Normally your comment wouldn't have elicited a response such as that from me, however, I have received several accusations from posting members here, that, 1) I must not care about the death of my loved one because I am not seeking answers, 2) With my calls for speculation to cease I must be trying to help in a cover up of the events that day and several choice terms and phrases used towards me. To take that out upon you was wrong of me, I am sorry.
The Swinging Monkey, thank you for your concern over my health, and if the matter was simply to refrain from logging onto pprune, then yes I woud be in agreement with you, however the matter isn't pprune, I and the other family members who have posted here have asked for the media involvement to end as that isn't something which can be easily avoided. It's not the same as avoiding switching on to Eastenders, not when it is in several newspapers, being discussed by the public, on the news, and television programmes dedicated to the event, and being advertised for that fact.
I do not claim to be speaking for the majority of families, I am the appointed spokesperson for my family alone, not for any other family. When I have made comment about the majority of families requesting an end to the speculation and to await the BOI, this is solely indicating and pointing out the fact that several other family members have posted here asking the same as I do.
I am not entirely blinkered to the fact that the BOI will give all answers and all facts of what may or may not have happened that day. I know that this will not be feasibly possible, they have not been able to gain safe access to the crash site or to be able to examine the remains of 230, however I do believe they will be able to take the information they have, events leading up to the crash, information from the black boxes and other relevant information they will have aquired to make an informed explanation, even if that may be an inconclusive one. It will certainly not have been an easy task for the board in this investigation, I think they deserve to be given a chance to present those findings.
Tappers Dad, Sir, the calls for an end to media speculation are not in any shape or form a personal attack on you or your family, they are simply a request to respect and allow those who wish for peace in a time of grief, you are entitled to your way of grieving as are we. I do wish you and your family well, and I do hope you find peace in your grief.