Many years ago, a Sqn chappie (who 'thought' he was good at everything - well liked etc) walked out from his 1369 ‘debrief’:
Sqn mate: “How was your debrief?”
Sqn Chappie: “Well, yes er…….yes, …..er….. OK …. er… yes! Quite good actually ….er….umm ………..What does ingratiating mean???
You can imagine the response from all those present !!!!