i hope for all of your sakes that the BoI comes soon and IS truthful and all recommendations come about without incessant pressure from any of you. sadly i have been on both sides of the arguement, i have been saddened and shocked, distressed and distraught at seeing my loved ones face on the news or spoken about in other formats. sometimes, that has been becuase of me. there is nothing that will bring back our loved ones...ever. BUT we know how soul destroying the loss of our loved ones is, but as much as we want the truth, indeed have a right to the truth, the thought of sitting back and letting others potentially be out at a risk they need/should not be and the thought of anyone else going through the living hell we endure is sometimes enough of a drive to try and find out what the hell is happening. lab queen, you really gave me food for thought with your post re the confidence of your loved one. i am sad to say through experience though that yes the BoI does end up at least putting an end to the nightmare scenarios that run through your head,but it opens another box of demons. it also does not mean that by any long shot that you have the answers...or as someone said a step towards the coroners court. i'm still waiting and it will be 3 yrs b4 we actually get to the inquest.
we are united as were our loved ones in death. we must all stick together. i wish i could help to take the pain away. i wish i could make it better, but i'm afraid this is it.
sending you all hugs. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx