Mark,
I understand what you are saying with regard to LabQueen, and I have the utmost sympathy for her, along with TD and all of the families involved.
But at the end of the day, this is a RUMOUR forum! Thats what it's all about.
I do genuingly have the utmost sympathy for her, but I would simply suggest that if it causing her and some of the others even more unneccesary grief, they perhaps shouldn't read it.
TSM