ZA
Fixate more on yourself and Elaine - she will get to go places with you in the new Extra. This is not a dress rehersal mate, this is your once-only chance around the block. Your kids are bright/savvy enough to do well for themselves without you gift-wrapping their future in the Extra that you never had!
My folk spend all their time "skiing" - spending the kids inheritance!
Love
Stik