Yes you can both work for Etihad. The biggest problem is that your housing allowance is not even close to getting you a quality Flat. Dont even think of a Villa as $110,000 durhams will not even get you a maids closet. The company will only give only ONE housing subsidy allowance, either you or your spouse. The company said that they will not let you combine your allowance as this would be double dipping. According to the last memo as we are a government company and this is not allowed. However we are not a government company when it comes to the raises given within the last 2 years to all government employees, Except Etihad Airways.
Management should think twice when posting such memos as it just pisses people off.. You bunch of Cheap screws
Good luck to you and your wife at Etihad