that difficult to get a transfer
We have waited a year to have someone released in to us. He was stymied because no one could be released into HIS unit. I disagree with your premise.
Of course you work hard. Only an idiot would disagree with that.Surprisingly enough people at lower bands ALSO work hard(and before 250 jumps in it isn't all scheduled traffic at 0400) Being told "live with it" is so much easier looking down than up. I am well paid and quite content. I am sure there are people out there who take a different tack though.