"My guess is that you're getting a ground rush - essentially, and you know this better than I do, you're looking at the concrete rushing up at you, self preservation kicks in, and you yank back."
You've hit the nail on the head there pal, really good respones and thanks for your advice Caudillo I'll keep that in mind when I fly next. I think it really is going to be a case of doing it against all my instincts lol and actually forcing myself to do it. Fight the fear lol thank you and happy landings!