Really utterly disgusting the way this is being handled by the employer (GF)!
There used to be a time when the Arabs appreciated, respected and rewarded loyalty, even from expats. But this is the Middle East now....
This should really be a warning to all expats working in the Middle East or considering to go there - cover yourself and get as soon as possible a 'homebase' again back home where, if the worst comes to the worst, you can repatriate to!
Keeping my fingers crossed for the poor guy and really wish him all the best for a speedy recovery!
jollyikarus