This discussion has been done before. The poems and all that guff make me sick, but its a free world as far as I last knew.
If you know someone, fair enough, but random cheesy grieving is a bit poor form really. Why not just do a short message of sympathy if you really feel the need to post??
If Jayteeto ever bites the dust, please feel free to use the time to stop typing the message and down a few Tequila Slammers instead. I reckon that a typical 'High Flight' post could be substituted for at least 5 slammers. Even a cut and paste would allow 2 shots!!