The Navy Fly?
If you look through other posts you will see a fair number of dark blue aviator moans too.
I was given some advice by a retired 36 year old sqn ldr when I had been in a couple of years - resign.
I was given the same advice when I joined my first operational station.
Things are in continual flux. What we like and tolerate today suddenly becomes too much tomorrow. The young starry-eyed and admiring girl friend becomes the more disenchanted wife when she remains at home. If she follows the flag she has to leave a job she might enjoy and go through endless new job interviews etc before finishing in a possibly lower paid job. The late Lord Gardener PVR'd because of his wife's job and the services expectations.
Join by all means. Don't expect too much. Certainly don't expect the system to look after you.