it looks like your enthusiasm is starting to p*ss people off, don't take it personally
gingernut, it's not that we're getting pissed off, or I'm not anyway. Sam, if it comes over that way, my apologies.
It's just that we seemed to be going round in circles. Sam may or may not have childhood health problems that may or may not delay or prevent him getting a medical. It was obvious to several of us that the the ONLY way to find out was to go for a medical, and ASAP as it might be a long process. Sam appeared to be thinking of all the reasons not to do this, or to do something else. Now, while that's quite understandable as he's scared he might not get a medical, in the long run he has to bite the bullet and find out. We could all see that it was a time for action, not for more words. Perhaps we did put it rather strongly...but it seemed necessary. It was well meant - really, Sam.
But do keep posting; we in no way meant to put you off!