Tourist,
'arrogant enough' would infer that your view of Red Arrows pilots is that they all have this personality trait. Please avail us of details of your experience in this matter
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(IOT lessons on leadership - 'beware of individuals who use deferred authority' - ie 'the Air Cdre said'! Hmmm deferred auth with CINC Nag Home perhaps
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Perhaps your wife said 'arrogant enough - tosser'.