From your tone it seems that you want to cause a divide between pilots and ATCO’s, which is a shame.
If you looked at my profile you would realise that is not the case.
However, even if you have taken the time to visit ATC, some of your profession don't, and it is becoming more and more apparent that some members of the flying profession, (and I stress here it is only some, not the majority) be it due to company pressures or other reasons, think they are the only aircraft that matters when it comes to operating. It does come across as that way sometimes - and it's not endearing behaviour.
By the way - the -5/+10 comment saddens you? I wouldn't read
http://www.pprune.org/forums/showthread.php?t=275386 if I were you then