'your' pilots abilities
Nice try... My piloting abilities are irrelevant. Just like your crewing abilities are, similarly, irrelevant. We both know that, as pilot or crew, we both know who are the good pilots, (in my case), and the good crew, (in your case). We are both well aware that there are good and bad in both trades. The difference is, almost uniquely, that the pilots _tend_ towards the arrogance of their rank... IOW, They _think_ they are better than others... Whether or not that is true...
BTW, the "all mouth, no trousers" was the offensive and typically juvenile comment if you need your inability to communicate effectively with others pointed out to you. It goes most of the way to proving my point actually, so I thank you for it.