Hey PB,
Having been an Instructor at both Old Sarum Flying
Club and Cabair
School of Flying Elstree, without doubt where you should learn to fly is at a flying
Club!
The special atmosphere at a flying club, in my opinion, would suit your remit much better. Clubs are more about the fun and enjoyment of learning to fly - whilst being no less professional.
Now whilst OSFC is too far for you to travel (although there are some members that do!), I would look for something similar (i.e. club) within a one hour drive from your home.
Oh BTW, I was one of those Instructors who worked to build experience towards the Airlines. I gave 100% to all my students and worked damed hard at giving quality instruction. So don't let comments from others put you off.
Good luck with the search and savour every moment of learning to fly!
L.