Rainboe,
"It's up to the Captain to be as arrogant as he likes- that copilot must find ways around to work effectively. But so many these days are little prima donnas who flounce off and sulk or become shrinking violets- the failure is them for not finding a way to get the work done effectively, which is their duty."
Do you actually bother to read what you post?
Are you actually saying that a Captain can act in any way he sees fit?
Are you further saying that an FO has to perform their duties no matter what the Captain does or says?
I assume that you are a Captain. If I am wrong then I hope you can see how I make that assumption.
Therefore let me say this. You are a pilot not GOD. If as a grown adult whose job is to ferry others around you show a staggering lack of social skills.
You are not omnipotent or all knowing. In fact you actually could do with realising just how little you do know. All good pilots know their limitations yet you feel you have none.
Cheers
BHR