Ok, sensing how steep this slope is, I didn't want to join in. But, I found a grain of salt in my way and here it goes:
Girls in the cockpit? Well, for a starter, I feel most of them have a problem. They know they are judged and observed. Therefore the first attitude of a women pilot is to be defensive or even agressive. I have yet to find a women that "acts" normaly when seated in a flying machine
In my >20 years of private or professional flying, I have met quite a few male pilots that impressed me. Their decision making, situation awareness, leadership or handling were really outstanding. I have yet to meet a flying gal leaving me in awe, at least flyinwise
Oh well, it is probably ME that has a negative attitude towards the gender
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... cut my wings and I'll die ...