Mr Moto.
You mentioned kitchens and starving children. What's wrong with the male partner carrying out these roles? My wife and I share the house-hold chores.
Why do we have to stereotype gender into positions in life? If someone is capable of doing as job they should be given as much encouragement as possible.
I noticed a couple of comments about "Daddy helping his little girl"! I'd put money on the fact that Daddy also helps his little boy!