Well, refusing your father's money is your own choice, i don't think good or bad of you.I am not twisting your ideas and i know you didn't say anything about the military.I was just saying it to show you that a man is a man also not doing a military service or getting money to your parents.
Let me ask you one thing.Did you get where you are without asking anything?not even one penny?since your answer is no you are like me, the difference maybe is in the amount of money you got from your parents that might be different from the one i got.So where is the man you are talking about?Since yo got less money then me it means you are more a man then me?i work since i was 16 years old.Today i am 30 and the cars i had really never changed me.Not having debts didn't make me a spoiled man but just lucky.It depends from people to people.