Hit a raw nerve
rdr, Sorry to put you in a fit.
I was truly interested in an Indian's opinion of a place to live/work in India that might be more like what I am used to in the USA. Perhaps I did not do a very good job of asking for that.
I was thinking if there were such a place in India then I could think about staying longer. What I have heard is many people (including Indian's) choose to leave when they can and as soon as they can.