Pontius Navigator, you say:
"Although pressed to get a commission by his officers he is content with his lot. His dad is content too."
Don't let me give the impression for one minute that I am anything other than a content dad! Actually I'm highly impressed by his son's humble approach in seeking a Royal Air Force career. My angles are:
1. I'd like to understand my son's career choice
2. I think it is important for him to know if he's been wisely advised by the officer/s he's spoken to, and from what your colleagues say, the concensus is that he has not!
3. I know he will read and take on board what you 'the experts' have to say, so thanks to everyone for the valuable feed back.