rm2808,
i got the impression that they were looking for Leaders who showed ability in dealing with other people
RM, by this if you mean 'people with leadership potential who are good team players' then you are correct.
A charismatic but dogmatic leader such as Montgomery, Patton, or even Bader, would probably all be rejected. You can only become a PITA once you have proven abilities as a flyer or war fighter or whatever. Active participation as a team player is essential.