reacher,
OK, I just hope ftrplt doesn't read this post because already I have got into trouble for offering guidance rather than opinion.
**** man, get your arse out of there now! Right now! You are too old to be in the Service unless you are absolutely dedicated to progress to the top. It does not matter if you don't even have a civvie job lined up just now. Get your civvie quals sorted quick and start the application process asap.
In the meantime, if the Service throws you out because you haven't signed up again, so be it. You have plenty of savings to keep you going for at least six months. You WILL get a job in that time. In any case, if you have second thoughts, you can go back to the service with cap in hand and beg.
You will NOT have to do that!
A single man in his thirties flying airliners? Life doesn't get any better!