ftrplt,
I entirely agree with you that is an individual decision on whether one choses to stay or to go. But it is also a life changing decision that should be taken with the best available advice of those who have previously been faced with the same decision in the similar circumstances.
Those individuals with previous experience include both you and me. We both can throw our two bob's worth into the mix for whatever it is worth. Whether or not anyone actually listens to old despots like us, let alone take heed of our advice, is neither here nor there. Our life experiences are offered to the younger chaps for them to evaluate and pick and choose. Best regards to you and the other milts and hope all are in good health!