$4500 base is pretty shy for a widebody F/O job!!!! With the going rate around the world and especially if you have to live in Asia, surely they must have other incentives to retain staff?? If not, well good luck to them. If you have a partner, they wont be able to work there, so your prob better off at home where u can keep your relationship and both earn two incomes. Stop her going insane on your overnightas too!!