At the end of the day you find that the peolpe who are guilty of being "naughty" to or with pilots or crew (male or female) are normally like that with most people in everyday life not just at work. Information on these individuals actions and attitudes DOES NOT GO UNNOTICED and DOES NOT STAY SECRET for long (Especially when the crew get hold of it). We don't let it affect our jobs when we're at work, but when we're downroute these people had better have a good book, or anyone out there ever heard "not sure, I think we're all going to bed", and then bumped into the crew in the bar round the corner? A job in the airlines can be great fun,and you'll earn some decent dosh if your on the right side of the flight deck door. We're a community who work together and look after our own. Step out of line in that community and it can be a very lonely job - think about it - you know who you are. NEVER BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU - AND NEVER TRY TO GO WHERE YOUR NOT INVITED!