Time to upset the trand ala chequesticks.
Youngest of two. Female (eek!). Gemini. Not a musician. Elder brother is a soldier (what?!).
Don't know if I count as I'm a wannabe, but got my place/training sorted out. I figure younger siblings don't fly as they are inherently scared of brothers/sisters beating/ biting/ punching them if they tried to do better than the elders. Thus there is a general ethos of 'make do'.
(Except among the few of us who were real rebels and want to shove it up big sib's over pompose @rse, after all those years of setting favoutrite teddy on fire.)
Help. I think I'm dangerously close to opening fire on a bus full of Nuns. Sort than one out Sigmund.