CEJM, you could not be more right. I am one of those "well adjusted, socially adaptable, looking-for-a-relationship-not-just-a-fling type of pilots around" - or so I think that I am
But with the label that are put on almost all flightdeck members I don't even bother trying to find anyone inside the industry. Just not worth the bother.
But yes, I do know quit a lot of people within the aviation industry that are having healthy relationships without cheating....... and then there are of course also all the rest. But thats the same on every working site with mixed sexes and loose bodyfluids dripping around
