Married eh?
You are already a prisoner of circumstance.
What you want to do and what you probably will do are poles apart.
Sorry but youve missed the boat in my experience / opinion.
Flying training is a long arduos self indulgent process and thats without the posssibility of actually going to war and the need to hit the MI or whatever to get home on the odd friday night!!
In my day the nearest we got to combat was hand to hand fighting in the OM bar after last orders were called - and in Germany, in those days, that was a very very inetresting experience.
A married mate of mine was a great success during the basic fast jet courses yet nearing the end of a very succeessful Valley course walked in and pulled the plug! We were all shocked. Reason - He had "family - Computer (Wife) says No!! ". 20 years later he is quite happy flying his own plane living on acreage up North with non of the bitterness and anxieties displayed within these forums from our friends in uniform. Times have changed and the good times have I feel gone. Go Civil and have a life!!
Mind you what price 420 at 250?
Even Branson cant do that Can he??
Rgds Bd